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What advice do I have for other ladies in this business?

Ladies in this business almost never get any good financial advice and are often encouraged to spend their money in the worst ways: by getting cosmetic surgery, renting expensive apartments, leasing luxury sport cars, and not paying taxes. Although some ladies might seem (from the alter ego they present on their website) as though they're making lots of money, the truth is that none of these ladies have it easy. They have to be sensible and make good decisions with the money they make. I recommend ladies block anyone out of their life who doesn't respect how hard they work for their money and who encourage them to spend it frivolously. The book Personal Finance for Dummies (no pun intended Dummies books are excellent) has some great information. I also suggest ladies live beneath their means, pay taxes on all the money they make, and save as much as possible. (Although it would be maddening to owe taxes from past years and then have trouble catching up because the business changed rapidly and unexpectedly to a race-to-the-bottom situation because of the sex trafficking of immigrants.) By paying ladies under the table men are cheating them of valuable benefits.

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Why I do I refer to myself as an elite companion?

Some of the websites refer to the ladies who advertise on them as escorts, but I don't think of myself as an escort, and I'd avoid interacting with people who might treat me like an escort. I refer to myself as a companion, and this is because I'm most like a new friend.

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What do I mean when I call myself exclusive?

I provide companionship that is as exclusive as possible. It's generally safer, more discreet, and not so hectic seeing a few gentleman. After all, it wouldn't be appropriate for me to venture too much on a single friendship with someone I don't know too well. 

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How much advance notice do I need?

I prefer three days' notice for a date. Five days' notice would be excellent for a rendezvous that involves traveling, but I could accommodate shorter notice. I could scramble to get ready to see someone and look amazing late night or last minute, but I think notice is better.

Do I require a deposit?

If I have to pay for any traveling expenses, I should be paid, for those expenses, in advance. I also require a deposit a few days before the date. This way, if you need to cancel last minute, I'm happy to have gotten my deposit, and I'd look forward to seeing you again at a better time.

What will I wear?

I'd wear jeans or leggings, boots or sandals, and a top. I'd try to look like I'm going to a work event or like I'm some sort of an assistant and not like I'm going on a date. I've been thinking I look conspicuous wearing a mini dress and heels, so instead of wearing sexy outfits when meeting with gentlemen, I'm just going to wear the sort of stuff I would normally wear. If you would like me to dress differently, let me know.

How do I feel about reviews?
Please don't post any information about me anywhere on the internet without asking for my permission.
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What qualities do I appreciate in men?
I adore the sort of gentleman who's kind, sophisticated, and intelligent, the sort of gentleman who treats everyone with respect. And, of course, being hygienic and clean is crucial. 

What would cause me to lose interest in someone?
I dislike when people are rude to me or to other people. I'd also be annoyed with someone who's not discreet and creates drama in my career or personal life. 

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What's on my menu?
On occasion, a man will ask me about the specific things I do with men. It's always awkward to be asked such questions because they're indiscreet; therefore, I appreciate men who don't ask me perverse questions.

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​Do I party?

If you’re someone who plans on seeing a lady and using mind-altering substances with her, including marijuana, please don’t contact me. I don't think drug users should be criminalized. I think drug users should get treatment, but that doesn’t mean I’d tolerate being around someone who’s on drugs. If you're a drug user, a hard-drug user, you've got problems. I've got a few things I'm sorting out myself, so I can't deal with more problems. I have no rule against drinking, but I rarely drink. If you want to drink with me, that's fine. I can have no more than two glasses of wine, though, because I get drunk easily.

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Where do I live?

My neighbors would be upset if they were to see random men coming in and out of my apartment. There have been ladies who've gotten evicted for turning their apartment into an incall. Despite the obvious risks involved with incall apartments, some ladies might think seeing men in an incall apartment is such a lucrative business that it's worth the risk, but what I've realized is that the nicest place I could ever afford to rent wouldn't be comfortable enough for some men. A lot of men might feel silly sneaking in and out of an apartment building and so would rather have me visit them. And also, even if there were men who prefer to see me in an incall, would they be consistent enough to justify me renting a more expensive apartment in a more upscale neighborhood to host them. These are all the reasons why I don't bother having an incall apartment, although I think it maybe does work well for some ladies.

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Are your prices negotiable?

The contributions I suggest are somewhat firm. If you were to negotiate, I recommend whatever you suggest not be too different from what I'm asking for. For the three-hour date and especially the longer appointments, those prices are negotiable, but I'm firm about my minimum.

Is there a way around my screening process for those who aren't comfortable sharing their personal information?
I value my privacy and safety as much as you do. I don't gossip about my business with anyone. I use your personal information for verification purposes. Other than this, once the screening and verification process is complete your personal information is deleted.

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Can I share more about my personal life for those who'd like to know more about me?
Some people can be uptight and extremely judgmental especially toward people whose lifestyle they vehemently disapprove of. To me, these sort of people seem dull and misguided in their sense of self-righteousness. And yet, many people in our culture believe it's their business to know everything about everyone and judge everyone, and, of course, it isn't. And so, I may sometimes disclose more personal information, and you may disclose personal information. But it comes with time and trust, whenever that is, or I may never say much about myself, especially if it seems like you might not be discreet. Obviously, in order to for me to have a career and personal life, I have to keep that separate from this, which means sometimes I have to lie to people. Your support and understanding is appreciated.